IS THE GRASS REALLY GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE?

To be honest i'm not sure yet. But I can tell you that it's usually well groomed, smells fantastic and the thought of touching it makes you fell like Amy Winehouse finding a crack rock the size of her fist in that rats nest of hers that she calls hair.

Where as the thought of your significant others grass (assuming that you've been together for at least 3 years or are married) is some what along the lines of Chewbacca, Taste like like ass and the thought of having to pretend to be attracted to it almost makes leukemia seem bearable.

OK maybe my last example is a little over board but you get the point. I feel like this post could go in so many different directions: Is cheating OK (No), What if it's only an emo affair and not a physical relationship (It's still an affair), Should he/she leave their partner for me (No because your new relationship is built on lies), What if I get caught (You should have never taken your panties off in the first place), It's complicated there's kids involved (You should have thought about that in the first place), Our affair is different we love each other (Then end your other relationship) All of the answers listed above are the morally right answers according to the society that we live in. But guess what times are a changin: Swingers clubs are every where, 90% of bitches have HPV and our new president is black.

So with all that said is the grass really greener on the other side??

Yes, it will always be. I think that the real question is "Is it worth it?"

I can't answer that question for you nor can God, Gandhi or that Bitch down the street that's always up in your biz-nass. "Is it worth it?" is a question that can only be answered by the two of you (Aka you the whore bag & he the douche bag) I kid, I kid!

I think that the question that you really need to ask yourselves is: What is lacking from my current relationship that makes this affair fell so right?

AND...

If your in an affair where your single and your lover is attached/married you need to ask yourself: Why are you so attracted to your lover and not willing to meet somebody else that is single?